Why Someone With Dementia May Say “I Want to Go Home”

One of the most difficult things a family can hear from someone with dementia is, “I want to go home.” It becomes even harder when Mom is already home. A daughter may respond, “Mom, you are home. You’ve lived here for 25 years.” Mom looks around and insists that...

Why Routine Matters for Someone With Dementia

Most of us have routines without thinking much about them. We wake up around the same time, make coffee, get ready and go about our day in roughly the same order. We know what happens next because we’ve done it thousands of times. For someone living with...

Beautiful Building vs. Great Memory Care

I have walked through some absolutely beautiful senior living communities. Huge windows, beautiful furniture, restaurant-style dining rooms, fireplaces, landscaped courtyards and apartments that look like something out of a magazine. There is nothing wrong with any of...

The Most Important Question to Ask on a Memory Care Tour

When I tour memory care with a family, there are a lot of questions we can ask. We can talk about staffing, meals, activities, medication management, pricing, transportation and what happens if care needs increase. All of those things matter, and I want families to...