Will My Loved One Get Worse After Moving?

This is a question families don’t always ask out loud, but I know they’re thinking about it. “What if moving Mom makes her worse?” It’s a legitimate concern. Someone with dementia often depends heavily on familiarity and routine, and moving changes...

What Should You Bring When Moving Into Memory Care?

Once a family has selected a memory care community, another question usually shows up pretty quickly: “What do we actually bring?” It’s more complicated than packing for a normal move. Mom may be leaving a house she has lived in for 30 years and moving into a...

How Do You Make the Transition to Memory Care Easier?

Moving is stressful for almost everybody. Think about the last time you moved. Even when you chose the new house and were excited about it, there were boxes everywhere, your routine changed and nothing was where it normally belonged. Now imagine experiencing all of...

Should You Tell Someone With Dementia They’re Moving?

Families ask me this question more often than you might think: “Should we tell Dad he’s moving into memory care?” At first, the answer seems obvious. Of course you should tell him. He’s an adult, it’s his life and he deserves to know what is...

What Happens When Someone Refuses to Move to Memory Care?

One of the hardest conversations I have with families usually starts something like this: “We know Mom needs more help, but she absolutely refuses to move.” If that’s where your family is right now, you’re certainly not alone. Someone can need significantly more...